you gesticulate wildly,
hands outstretched to the heavens praying,
"Oh God, listen!"
but there's an ambulance screaming hot headed siren
to an emergency more bloody than ours
how can anyone hear anything in this loud mouthed city?
thousands of thoughts
said thousands of words to you when i'm alone
and i know
somewhere over the sirens and space
you still hear me
we're connected like that like
i'm thinking about peach pie
and at a sunny diner counter somewhere you're ordering a slice
there used to be a real, big wall between us
but we tore it down to reveal people we hadn't ever met
you clasp a faded photo of a pretty girl in your sweaty left fist and
shake it like an etch-a-sketch you hope will rearrange into my face
the me you remember is a late night TV fantasy
the you i remember is a mirage in the mouth of the thirsty
you'll pedal someplace
a springtime desert in bloom
seeking infinitely intangible
i'll make your memory out of excuses
hate myself when i beg but
do it anyway
i miss my reflection in your worldview
i know it's a bad idea but i
do it anyway
still a fish out of water in
smoky late night glasses
bleeding romantic misery pen strokes
if you ever said yes to me?
i'd have nothing to write about.
dissatisfaction painted every painting
penned every song
so say no again!
i'll sculpt a new heart from
fragments of the old
proudly let the scars show through like
the lines carving deeper in the corners of these
easy blue eyes
tell the story of a joyful life
of being broken open and
sewn back together again
if i die tomorrow don't
commit me to the earth
scatter my ashes on the wind
so i can spin
eternal in the air
still meaning seeking
secret border hopping to
places that require visas
molecules of me wrapped in your hair
we don't know how many breaths we get
so let's breathe each other slowly
while we can
let's tell secrets in smiles and
kiss like we mean it
i want to die because my heart was so full
Sunday, March 17, 2013
|The Goddess of Never Not Broken|
When I look at it honestly, I can see that this all started when my yoga practice got serious again five years ago. It's the yoga, man! That glorious sweating and stretching, bending and twisting, gleaming and beaming! That bitchin' vehicle of self-awareness that has made my body so sensitive and me so sensitive to my body that I can no longer live as I once did. Yoga ruined my life.
The initial layer peeling was disorienting, to say the least. I seemed to be having a nervous breakdown; my boyfriend at the time agreed. Life was so much move ALIVE and I felt it all, all at once, all of the sudden. Everything that wasn't working had to be addressed immediately because it became impossibly uncomfortable to live with incongruity. It was an interesting period of transition that hasn't really ended but evolved as I continue to peel layers back to reveal more of my truth...and put layers back on...and pull them back off.
My yoga recalibration has been rife with duality. I went to class a few years ago right after happy hour. I've gone to happy hour right after taking class or teaching on several occasions. I've slept with men who were all wrong for me for all the wrong reasons. I've gotten too little rest, eaten too much or not enough, been mean and rude and wildly irrational. I've pondered how long I could last walking this line before I wavered and fell to one side or the other for good. While there's no real end goal in yoga, I've considered that I could be progressing so much faster if I didn't take so many back steps. I've heard that sometimes the only way forward is backward, but come on! This is getting ridiculous.
Life is going to change you. How you are changed depends entirely upon how you perceive what you're being offered. Yoga ruined my life, yes, but in all the right ways. It ruined me for alcoholism and anorexia, emotional and physical recklessness, and all manner of self-sabotage and harm. It gifted me with a wondrously vital experience of life in my body that comes at a price which I am still learning to pay. In exchange for all this incredible clarity, I have to give up how I lived before and learn a whole new way of being. This process is uncomfortably unfamiliar. It's alienating. It can be tiring. I am comforted by the knowledge that everything is changing all the time, even the mountains, and that I'll be on the other side of this someday, stronger, smarter, braver, brighter, truer...and this, this future reality is worth the present effort.
It's the effort and struggle in the present that make the future so valuable when it's finally reached. Stretch into it. Let your life be ruined so it can be made better.